Everyone needs to feel loved... So if we don't feel loved we start looking for it, and often in the wrong places and/or we fall into traps that have been set to pull us down. I know i have in the past, and still fall into them sometimes, but Thanks to God i don't fall as deep, He reveals the trap.
My love language is quality time* and i have falling into traps and have done some crap stuff and even put up with some crap in the past, God has been showing me that i fell into the crap because i felt unloved and i was looking for that love... However He is also showing me more and more, that when i feel unloved, to come to Him first, and spend time with Him. You see God knows the love language of each one of us, and He will speak to us through our love language. And it is so awesome when God speaks to you in your own love language...
If you don't know what your love language is, i would encourage you to find out what it is, and seek God, and allow Him to love you in that way.
*there are different ways (or languages) in which people recieve and give love. Gary Chapman put these in to 5 "languages".... being physical touch, quality time, gifts, words of affirmation and service. http://www.fivelovelanguages.com
5 years ago
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